Conscience preys on me, and my reluctance to lose my IWSG contacts keeps me making brief appearances – even this late entry.
Is this monthly Insecure Writer’s Support Group post an attempt to stay connected? Should I accept this as a vain attempt to salve my conscience? Could it be an exercise for my brain – or a diversion from urgent work?
Answers are not needed, although the Ninja Captain might post a comment. Thanks Alex J. Cavanaugh in advance – and thanks for creating the Insecure Writer’s Support Group without whom my writing would be non-existent.
Don’t forget to visit via the IWSG site for better answers to this month’s challenging question.
As usual, I need to remind myself the question is optional, but why not attempt an answer.
February 3 question – Blogging is often more than just sharing stories. It’s often the start of special friendships and relationships. Have you made any friends through the blogosphere?
The Cambridge Dictionary defines a friend as:
a person who you know well and who you like a lot, but who is usually not a member of your family
In this digital/internet age, I suspect physical contact is not a requirement – Covid-19 exacerbating such contact now. So, level of contact is a key factor.
I often call my writer/blogging colleagues ‘friends’ and I hope you see yourselves as such – well, those I interact with regularly–
Like some of my fellow Voyager anthology colleagues.
Like those of you who encourage my WEP/IWSG entries – the Sparkle Anwyl fans.
Like my beta readers, whom I fear I’m letting down at present.
Like those readers and writers who supported my Spiral of Hooves launch.
Apologies for not listing you – omissions are too easy to make – so, I hope you know who you are.
Although these raise a crucial question: when do such friendships end?
Contact with those latter Spiral of Hooves friends has tailed off as my debut fades – in some cases to a memory.
And that reminds me of a real concern: where are my real-life friends? Even before lockdown, I had none. They were lost back in the UK, even if trawling through my list of Facebook friends, I still have plenty I interacted with in my equestrian days.
However, genuine contact fell away when I retired…when the MonSter took its toll.
But isn’t that ‘fall’ a real test of friendship?
Look to those who stand with you in the darkest hour. That’s reality regardless of physical contact. And my blogging friends are the ones who keep me going now.
Advice – Association – Affinity – Allies – Amigas – Amistad
How can I be repetitive asking you to agree these guys are the best? Especially as they all have concerns, fears, and insecurities. But they struggle on, so ticker-tape applause for all of them – plus toasts with the best brew available. They are truly the best…and one is someone I’m proud to class as a true friend—
Purpose of IWSG: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!
Every month, we announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience or story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post or let it inspire your post if you are struggling with something to say.
Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer – aim for a dozen new people each time – and return comments. This group is all about connecting!
Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!
Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.
Every month, we announce a question that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience, or story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post or let it inspire your post if you are struggling with something.
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